one last hypothetical

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Count your blessings and be thankful that his penultimate day in your room is a positive one!
this happened to me friday. two seniors came in acting silly and laughing a lot, etc. at first i dismissed it. however then when we walked to lunch, both were zig-zagging down the sidewalk as their senior friends told them in a hushed voice that they needed to "calm down, get you shit together, walk along the wall" etc. when we got to the cafeteria, before i knew it they were causing in uproar in the line as all the students in the cafeteria could see that they were drunk. a fellow teacher asked my thoughts about the students and i told him that they were drunk. i made my way to the asst principal but he was already doing my job for me by pulling them out of the line and escorting them to the office
Ignore it. Your primary purpose--besides teaching--is to set a good example for your students. But students are notorious for underestimating teachers' perceptive abilities. Think about all the times you got away with things in high school; chances are, you probably didn't. Your teachers knew, but they ignored it.

You are only required to act when your students know that you know that the student is drunk. Under those circumstances you HAVE to set a good example. If the students don't know that you know, you run a cost-benefit analysis:

As a first-year white person, the last thing you need to do is make yourself irrevocably reviled within your community. If you force this issue, and it results in his not graduating, your position within the community is severely hampered. Right and wrong won't really matter; you fucked up this kid's senior year, and you'll be held responsible for it.

Eventually, when you've established your credentials, you can make the kids play by your rules. Until then--to some extent--you have to play by your community's. And chances are, lots of the parents and community members did the same thing this senior has done.

This answer isn't inspiring, it wouldn't find a place in "Freedom Writers", and people may well (rightly) revile you for it, but it gives you a chance to fight the good fight for a longer period of time, and that's what this job is about. It's not about making a one time statement and going down in a blaze of (self-righteous) glory. It's about finding a way (probably painful), to do what you can to help as many kids as will accept it.
i would ignore the situation as well. being the last day of school and him being a senior on a one way ticket outta there, just play the all infamous "oblivious" card and let him slide through the cracks to his future of successful business entrepreneurship

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